new Boyfriend with bby momma drama

How long have y’all been together?

Is she actively trying to get her stuff together and nice out or does it look like she's going to be renting a room from him for a long time. If it's a shirt temporary thing and she is trying to handle her business and get out in her own that's one thing but if she things she can live with him for an indefinite long period of time is the him it's be our her. Ajay the fact they they had drugs in there system is a major red flag if we are taking about hard drugs. They could be using drugs together again. I wouldn't be with someone that hadn't had a lot of clean time, like years of clean time. Why risk that my baby/ kid could be around it or even get into it. But that's just me personally.

Your question was if you are wrong? Well, if you read how you picture the situation seems to be they are together in a solid relationship (how did she get pregnant?) and she knows about you. You mean to tell me you rather argue with this pregnant lady for her baby daddy than letting your boyfriend put you first? Seems to be he is not telling you the whole true.

No judgement, just my personal blunt opinion..i would break it off now.. it seems off to me, plus they both made mistakes for the kids to get taken away by the sounds of it? I know you can catch feelings super quick but its best to cut loses 2 months in than 2 years in. This seems like a complicated situation that you could end up getting completely wrapped in the middle of, especially since you have kids of your own and already had a toxic relationship not long ago.
I would worry that maybe that toxic relationship has lowered your own self worth and is clouding your judgement on this new relationship.

If a friend was in your position right now what would you tell her?

It may not be the advice you want to hear but from one mama with a history of abusive relationships to another... take a step back and put all the extra love you have to give into yourself and not a tangled relationship. I mean that with nothing but love and well wishes x

The knowledge that they are in the same room together is enough to scream red flags. How do you know if they are intimate or not? It would be very likely that they are especially if they had a child together. Just cut it off with him now or you'll end up stressing over a man who seems to not have his life together with 6 kids