new Boyfriend with bby momma drama

so i just gotten out of abusive and toxic relationship with my kids dad a year ago and i’m dating this guy who has 6 kids he’s great with my kids and his but lives with his mom bc of his old relationship that made them lose everything and they 3 kids so they broken up bc they was always arguing and she was the reason the kids gotten taken away they had drugs in they system so his babymomma asked him can she rent out his room with him in it until she get back on her feet idk if it’s just me but i told him she could of went to a women shelter instead of being in a room with him plus they don’t have the kids no more so it shouldn’t be no reason for her to go to him when she could of gotten the help somewhere else that’s just me but anyways before we started dating they was doing it and she found out she was pregnant and didn’t tell him he just told me that she was hiding it but idk how to feel bc i love him and he loves me and we don’t wanna break up but i can’t stop thinking about her living there and she’s pregnant and he’s always talking about how she’s always starting arguments bc we together like i told him if she has a problem she can come to me not have arguments with him am i wrong for that or what bc fr i don’t know how to feel or think ?

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Advice

Hi everyone,I feel a bit embarrassed about this, but I’m really struggling financially at the moment and I’m not sure what options I have.

I’m currently on my own with my baby and I don’t really have any support from my baby’s dad. Things are quite tight and it’s getting quite stressful trying to manage everything.

I’m also worried that I may not be able to go back to work after my maternity leave ends because childcare is going to be really difficult to arrange and afford, which is adding to the stress.

I was just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and has any advice on what help is available (benefits, grants, childcare support, anything really), or even just ways you managed to make things a bit easier.

Any advice or kind words would really help right now. Thank you 🤍

Waves? Connections?

Im just curious if any one pays for ways and gets better connections? I see so many people saying they want a friend u would think there would be some pretty cool connections? Any one paying and have good connections? Any one not paying and made good friends? How did you navigate and connect with others!

MADE GOOD CONNeCTIONS
Meaning u interact frequently. Get to vent or get advice. Feel like you have a friend.

PARTIALLY
Interact ever so often. Cordial. Feel like you could potentially be friends.

MET IN PERSON
Have actually met up and tried to connect

No CONNECTIONS
Still looking. Maybe interacted and exchanged numbers but still no friendship.

Friends ??

I’m 26 looking for a REALLLL friend ! I have 4 kids & married , 420 friendly , sahm in North Carolina 😗

BESTIE!?

Right bitches I need a best friend 😭🤣 hopefully one that matches my energy I can’t see waves and I need friends 😩 applications below 👇 ❤️

PPA and leave ending

I go back to work on 4/20, I WFH but with my job I have calls all day and I can’t do baby duty and work. My step mom will be taking care of my son while I work which I am so grateful for but the anxious thoughts won’t stop.like what if they get into a car accident, what if she accidentally forgets him in the car, what if he falls or is scared or gets hurt. My brain will not shut off. I’m really struggling but I need my job and I need the help.

Having sex without closing your eyes

Tips on how to have eye contact or just look at your man while having sex I always close my eyes bc I’m just so self conscious like what if my face looks funny, what if my eye looks lazy, mind you this is the only man I’ve had sex with that ever felt like this sometimes I will peak but like I said I’ve only done this with him