Boundaries!

No not being unreasonable at all! Do not feel guilty.

Stick to with what you’re comfortable with. If they can’t respect that it says more about them

Those are such reasonable boundaries, you absolutely should not feel guilty.

You don't need to justify anything to anyone.

It's not unreasonable, to be honest in my view nothing that you want would be too much. It's your baby!! If they can't respect your rules for your new baby then maybe they shouldn't visit if they can't be respectful to you. Its hard enough recovering, managing a toddler and new baby then additional stress of family/friends not understanding your feelings.

At least you’re allowing visits! I’m not allowing anyone for the first week. Did the same with my first.
Either respect your very reasonable limits or don’t bother coming. Prioritise your health and bonding with baby. Let them be angry.

It's good to have boundaries, don't feel bad- some people take the mick. I will be telling everyone to use hand sanitiser and with my babies I usually have a blanket i use for visitors to hold the baby in so when they leave i can throw it in the wash 😂

You’re being completely reasonable. If they’re not happy about it they shouldn’t be visiting baby. People who love you won’t mind if you ask for simple little things. Xxx