Running off to get married secretly

Everyone is making our wedding about themselves so we’re running off to the courthouse to get married for insurance and stress purposes. Also it’s what we wanted in the first place and pushing the wedding to next year! Hopefully less stress with more time to plan it and I can figure out what’s going on in my family☹️

Just venting, thanks for listening!

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Good for you!

We got married with no one there (but our daughter) and no one knew. Told them all later! Best decision ever.

It’s about you two, no one else. No one else is in this marriage 💍💒👰‍♀️🤵

This was our plan originally then decided to have a small ceremony of 10 people. Do what makes you happy!

Wish we’d done that. They ruined my day 🤷🏼‍♀️ GOOD FOR YOU!

We decided to get eloped when we got engaged. My family is invasive too. We wanted to make a vacation out of it, so I found a bnb that had a small ceremony package. It was beautiful. 10/10 recommend!!

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