I need help reshaping my thoughts on my baby potentially sharing a birthday with my mum
My mum and I aren't close, by choice on my part. She's a little unaware and seems to think we're close and she's the best mum ever.
To keep it short, the reality is both my parents were quite abusive and neglectful growing up, now as an adult I struggle to really forgive her. As she's gotten older she's remained quite childish and now I feel like the parent/mature one. She will throw tantrums, cry and guilt trip if things don't go her way, she'll ghost you then act upset a few days/weeks later if you stop trying to reach out. Honestly the whole relationship is exhausting but I try to just keep her happy and keep the peace for the sake of my siblings.
Anyways I'm pregnant wirh our 2nd child and now overdue, however I feel I may give birth in the next day or so! It's really exciting but it's my mums birthday in 2 days and I'm just getting this silly gut feeling that baby will arrive on her birthday.
I just know if it was to happen I'd never hear the end of it, like she'd rub it in in a childish way. I'm trying not to let it bother me because it really doesn't matter but I'd be lying if I said I wish I could choose for baby to be born literally any other day 🥲
I need to just reframe how I think about it tbh, because it's so stupid and doesn't matter. Please help!