Mamas with depression, anxiety, and other mental health disorders

Is it just me???

Ok so my husband and I have had this discussion plenty of times. Well maybe not a discussion more of me letting him know that something bothers me very much. If I text my husband I would kike him to respond or if I call I would like for him to answer but does he fuck no. I feel like if you truly care about someone the least you could do is respond it’s not that hard. He says cause he doesn’t always have his phone in his hand which I’m aware of but you would think he would check it every so often thinking hhmm I haven’t heard from my wife I wonder if she’s ok or if she’s tried to get ahold of me but no he doesn’t. I have told him many times that I do not like being ignored it makes me feel like he doesn’t care. Am I overreacting??? The part that bothers me the most is that I have told him I don’t like it how it makes me feel and he still has not even attempted to change it. He swears he is never in the wrong it’s always me thinking negatively or seeing it a way it’s not. I’m really not crazy and sometimes I feel like he tries to make me think I am just so he doesn’t have to admit he is in the wrong or that his actions could have made me feel hurt.

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People with children just don’t get it😡

I have a gbf he’s nice we enjoy going out together but when I bring my toddler I feel as if he’s a burden, yes toddlers play up sometimes, get tired, ratty but he dosent have children and finds him exhausting and makes comments like “so glad I don’t have children” “couldn’t deal with that” etc. he never sees the true side of my little boy he hardly ever sees him but it’s really upset me should I take this so personal or jus brush it off.

Is this fair?

I’ve been with my partner for 7 years, and he’s a mechanic who manages his garage. He’s always handled my car—MOTs, servicing, repairs—just like he does for his mum, dad, and friends.

Recently, he told me he feels I don’t respect him or do enough for him (not sure why but anyway)🙄 because of that, he won’t work on my car anymore. My car just failed its MOT and needs two tyres and a shock, so it’s going to be expensive but that’s not really the issue.

What’s upsetting is that he’s refusing to help me at all and says I now have to go through the garage and pay full prices like any other customer. At the same time, he still goes out of his way to help family and friends, even when they’ve treated him poorly in the past.

It just feels hurtful, like he’s punishing me😓 is this fair? I don’t know where he’s getting that I don’t do anything for him, I constantly clean, cook, wash, work, school run/pick up, be with our child while he swans off after work🙄

Do you have a joint account for bills & shopping?

My husband and i bought our house in 2020 and without a discussion put the mortgage and bills in his name. I wasn't happy but it was done. I have to send him money every month after he tells me how much the bills came up to. Shopping we take turns to pay which isn't fair as one week might be more than others. Also, I do odd shops and buy the essentials for my newborn. This is causing a lot of arguments so my mum intervened and suggested having a joint account to make it fair.
He's now backtracking saying I have to make more effort with him, having date nights and not hide behind my children (ages 3 and 9 weeks). This is what's important to him. Is this fair?

Baby's breakfast

Baby is 14 months old.
I offered all safe/familiar foods except for the nori. She nibbled on it, but mostly tried to give it to the dog 😆
We can try again later, but I do love that I have an adventurous eater!
If you have any nori recipes feel free to drop them. I bought the nori to make musubi, but I love trying new things out and I still have like 18 sheets left!

Is this weird

My husband gets so angry/annoyed when I just give him the baby or place her next to him without saying why. He says it is rude. Is that weird or is it me?

Weaning

I’ve started weaning my baby she’s 6 months and 2 weeks and since I’ve tried her on food she’s been off her bottles and throwing most things up and most of her bottles and she was settled before. I’ve barely given her any food just spoonfuls to try.. is this normal or something I would need to see the GP for?