NOT SURE HOW I FEEL!!

So my partner and I dont live together as he works away and sometime with the price of fuel costs to much for him to come home every weekend so we make the most of bank holidays and houng away we have a LO who is 10 weeks we haven't had sex since LO had been born. Not sure how I feel about doing it in the same room as LO obviously only if LO is asleep. Where do you all stand with it?

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Nope. We utilise all the other rooms in the house

Only if you're comfortable with it and it won't ruin the mood for either of you then sure ☺️.
It personally doesn't bother us once LO is asleep.

Yep, we regularly do it when our baby is asleep in the same room, often for safety reasons (we cosleep with a sidecar crib). But put up pillows between and are quiet 😂 Other rooms are great options too though, y’all can get creative! Although if it’s your first time postpartum, might be good to stick with what’s comfortable.
And 10 weeks is still SO young, immobile, unaware, etc. They’ll be totally fine.

Nope, gives me the ick. Don’t see how anyone could get in the mood with their baby right there.

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Do you have sex on holiday? Please read before voting

Hubby and I are on holiday with our son. He doesn't like the bed he has been given so is Co sleeping with us in our bed.

Hubby keeps whinging that we can't have sex because we are Co sleeping. He's like 'what's the point in being married if we can't have sex on holiday?' he'd had a bit to drink. Last holiday was the same and we had sex in the shower. We tried to have a bit of fun in the shower yesterday but the bedroom is open plan (no door for the bathroom just a shower door) our son walked in on us. I felt a bit uncomfortable about it and we haven't tried to do it since.

Am I just overthinking this or does anyone else feel uncomfortable with having sex without the guarantee of privacy? Or are not bothered and having the sex?

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