I’ll like a honest conversation please.
Do people really want to make friends or they think they want to? I’ve had so many of my chats left unreplied even when it shows the blue read tick.
If my profile or face doesn’t interest you, a kinder letdown than ignoring is better.
It’s kinda frustrating
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I feel the same sometimes. I have been left on read so many times. However I know that not all of them do it on purpose.

I've only been using the app a few weeks, I'm due in September, but it feels more like conversations are forced on here. I've thought a few times about just leaving the app and hopefully making friends at baby classes instead, that way you can interact in person from the start and it feel more natural.

Im happy to make friends on here. I can’t see waves, but you can send me a message if you like xx

Personally I like this app more for the advice and conversations in these groups over one on one chat. I struggle a lot with replying to my friends and family as it is, without adding additional messages here.
I did use the swipe function at first when I was on mat leave and had more time, but messages felt daunting so I stopped swiping people and now just use channels.
I know its not technically the intended use of the app but it works for me, and I do think there's still value in my approach

It's like online dating isn't it? 😭 Ghosting is rife

I only joined the app to track my pregnancy then realised there were different groups. I personally only use it for info and sharing advice and experiences rather than making connections.
I’m sorry for the sad post but I’m honestly struggling so much and I feel so alone. I’ve tried to explain how I feel to my husband and mum but they don’t seem to get it. I have a 13 month old and I’m 4 months pregnant. I’m tired all the time, not happy in my marriage, put on so much weight and have absolutely no desire to do things. I’ve tried looking for a counsellor to talk to and just on the waitlist but I need to know it gets better. I feel like I’m stuck in a dark hole just pretending I’m okay to everyone my friends and family and work colleagues but I’m really really not.
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I’ve been with my partner for 3 years and we have a 2 year old. I got pregnant only 2 months after meeting him, we said let’s make it work. We have an ok relationship but there’s no emotional connection. He think it’s ok but I’ve expressed I’m not happy.
Recently an ex from 7 years ago just told me he’s still in love with me and he wants to peruse this again. I wasn’t expecting to feel all the things that I’m feeling and now I can’t stop thinking about the possibility of us together.
But I have a two year old. I feel like it’s selfish to even think about these things because I’d be taking away his home, his dad his normal. Do I just stay for the sake of my child? I mean my partner isn’t a horrible person we just aren’t in love or do I leave and explore this new connection with my ex? I’m so confused
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Heyyy mamas! 💕 I’m looking for 2–3 moms who want to start a brand-new TikTok page together! We would create content about motherhood, lifestyle, girl talk, challenges, and fun outings while building genuine friendships. 🫶🏽
Preferably moms in the Georgia area, but open to other cities too! No experience needed. Comment or message me if you’re interested! 🩷

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Hey I am here I am in my 30s and would love to make new friend weather its online or meet up person I have 2 beautiful children married and I have a condition called FND if u want to make friends then I will be more then happy to as I struggle to make friends

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My LO’s great grandma on his dads side is desperate to buy him a Christmas gift even though I have said multiple times I don’t want people buying him lots of things as it’s unnecessary but apparently she needs to 🙄 anyone got any recommendations nothing soft or plush (it’s a long story) x
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I haven’t been on contraception for 10 years, but never fell pregnant until we started trying. I am 8 weeks post partum and debating having the mirena coil fitted. Can anyone share their experiences please?
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