Partner has no sex drive!

So my partner and I have only had sex 4 times since I was about 5 months pregnant. I am now almost 4 months postpartum, and it’s driving me crazy because he won’t talk to me or tell me what the issue is so obviously I think it’s about me! My postpartum depression is already so bad and thinking it’s because of me makes me feel worse! I’ve even told him this and it hasn’t changed much.

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He probably upset yall haven't done nothing sexual

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I’m always trying to initiate some thing and HE doesn’t want to have sex not me

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Try to ask him again what’s the reason? behind him being non-sexual because you’re gonna drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out and just blaming yourself.

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