Dislike of foreigner?
I don't understand. I've done nct course, didn't click with any of the mums, im doing swimming classes with the baby for 4 months, im doing baby activity classes for the past 2 months.... LO is 8 months old. Like today, 3 new mums, plus me, all had a great chat, class was over and I went on to help to clean up just to return and see the girls exchange phone numbers but none of them asked mine. I smiled and said goodbyes but I was left with this very bitter feelings. All these activities I am the only foreign mum. Everyone else is british. My english is very good. I'm polite. Kind. Happy person. I just don't understand. Have you ever come across situation like this?
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Sort of... For some reason I don't click with people of my own ancestry (Caucasian), but I click instantly with black people. It is awkward and frustrating for me. But honestly, we are better off staying away from drama from people who are that judgemental anyway, even though it stings at first. I am sending hugs your way❤️
Honestly I've had this problem too but just in general🤷♀️
I can relate but try not to let it get to you even though you feel bad about it. You will find your own people soon enough. Sending you hugs
Im sad because I would like to have my little one some play dates as many of my friends have children school age. And just to have someone to chat about motherhood and life who would in similar stage of life.
I’m white with a British accent and I’ve had this issue too 🤷🏻♀️
I relate too! British and living in Germany, I made an effort at quite a few different baby groups and just didn't feel like it was reciprocated, or felt like they didn't really 'get' me. So I just stopped visiting them and was actually happier not going to them.
It is really difficult in situations like that to not think it's because we're foreign!
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