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Do you have sex on holiday? Please read before voting

Hubby and I are on holiday with our son. He doesn't like the bed he has been given so is Co sleeping with us in our bed.

Hubby keeps whinging that we can't have sex because we are Co sleeping. He's like 'what's the point in being married if we can't have sex on holiday?' he'd had a bit to drink. Last holiday was the same and we had sex in the shower. We tried to have a bit of fun in the shower yesterday but the bedroom is open plan (no door for the bathroom just a shower door) our son walked in on us. I felt a bit uncomfortable about it and we haven't tried to do it since.

Am I just overthinking this or does anyone else feel uncomfortable with having sex without the guarantee of privacy? Or are not bothered and having the sex?

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The second option was 'we have sex' not sure why it's come up as '...'

what’s the point in being married if you can’t have sex on holiday??? that’s a very weird thing to say. why would you want to have sex with a child there?

I would never have sex near a child 🤨 not even in the same house

Maybe your husband is just missing some connection, especially if he’s a particular touchy feely person. I’m like that too and would hate having to co sleep, as much as I love my kids! Maybe just need to have a chat with him and explain that while you’d love to have sex as normal, you’re just not comfortable doing it without privacy from your little one. It’s such a hard thing to navigate, especially when you’re not in your usual setting 🥲

I need the privacy, my daughter is 2, ot feels wrong to have sex if she's in the same room.

So when we book holidays we always book so that the sleep space is seperate and just have sex in the livingroom etc. Because being on holiday is the only time im not too tired to have regular sex so ill make sure I can.

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