Early positive?
My period didn’t come at its usual time, I thought I started Sunday morning - which would be 5 days late (after having sex the night before) - but I’m usually really heavy, and it really wasn’t. But the little blood I had over the last few days was really dark and brown. I had extreme cramping / pains which I never usually do that bad when I’m on, and yesterday the very very very little dark blood has stopped, so I took a test today and got this 😣 also I usually get sore boobs and tiredness a week before my period but that didn’t happen, although I’ve been extremely tired the last few days where I’ve always been having to take a nap (this happened with my last pregnancy but I was like 2 months along when that began last time) I’ve also started to get the very weird vivid dreams like I did last time but that was a lot further on too! I know I’m probably answering my own questions here but I really don’t know how to feel and kinda hoping this isn’t actually happening right now 😢
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Thats a pretty clear positive x
Look into your options and chat to your partner nothings set in stone, do whats best for you and your family
I wasnt ready when i got my positive but now with only 4 weeks to go im so excited
Give yourself time to sit down register it and have a think x
Me and my younger brother are a 9 year gap and i love him to bits so i wouldnt worry about the age gap
I kept saying one and done but i also told my husband i would never be able to abort because i just dont think i would be able to handle it, it was one of the first things he told me i should do when the test came back positive, i told him it takes 2 to create life and he either steps up or ill do it alone ( mind you its a terrifying thought doing it alone but so many strong women do!)
If your room can support a small cot/crib and if your daughter has her own room she wouldnt mind sharing in a few years i wouldnt worry about housing too much for the mean time.
In the end its really up to you, your situationship maybe good at the moment which is great but youll always have your babys but you may not have the same man so its really up to you.
If you havent already then you dont need to tell him yet, take the time to choose for yourself first x
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