Drama

How can a so called “man” threaten to leave his pregnant girlfriend due to pregnancy complications and having to be on bed rest and pelvic rest? Threaten to go out and cheat if I don’t suck or give something up. We already have 2 other kids together I just don’t know how to feel about this situation

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That's the biggest red flag I've ever heard. I'm so sorry. I would start figuring out how to leave.

I second that, definitely start figuring out how to leave hun. Men like that wont change and won't be a good father. Id be worry about my child's safety 🥺

More red flags than a carnival babes, he sounds like an absolute cock womble and tbh u don’t need that sort of negativity, take your babies and leave, no bloke should be treating his pregnant misses that way xx

An actual man would be more concerned about yours and your growing babies health and doing everything possible to help you through. If his sexual needs come above both of you then I think that speaks volumes to how he feels about being a father and a partner

This is an abusive relationship

He is abusing you. No man ever has any excuse to put his sexual desires above the health of his partner.

Jesus Christ I hate men

When his dick matters more than your and his child well being, we have a HUGE red flag. Like, go handle yourself, are your hands broken my guy? What a POS.

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I need some fucking friends before I go batshit as a sahm. I love my family— but I need some friends that understand we’re more than just moms 🫪

Anyways what’s yalls favorite GIF, I’ll start!

Anyone else feel the same way?

Hi mamas ! I’m 8 months pp and have a beautiful baby girl but ever since having her I’ve had the biggest identity shift and almost don’t know who I am. I looked up and ppd can make you experience derealozation/depersonalization which I feel as though I have. I also have ppa and hate being alone. Will this ever go away?? I just want to feel normal again :(

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I just quit my job and thinking about being a stay at home mom but scared, how is the transition from working to becoming a stay at home mom?

Women been told she can't get pregnant, being intimate with friend for over ten years confusing relationship. She gets pregnant after 6 years of unprotected sex father doesn't want child.. Should she...

Asking for a friend who's in this situation. What would you do or tell her... I've told her well medical science has always been behind in female understanding follow your heart do what you want, you haven't trapped him he can decide whether he wants to be in the child's life and well he should have put something on it... I'm curious how society will she it if she kept the child.

Cheating

Help I’ve just found out my partner has been cheating on me for a month. He’s been texting a girl who he gave his number to at work. He’s gave her a fake name and was muting their notifications but I saw it on his phone tonight. Apparently he’s been talking to her because she “gets him” so everytime me and him had an argument or falling out he was running to her. While still telling me he loves me. I’m so heart broken and torn. He says it was nothing sexual and that he just wanted to be heard but I really don’t know what to do or feel. I’m numb. We have a 9 month old and he says he would do anything for us yet he chose some random woman. I feel physically sick

I need advice pls :(

Loneliness

Hi moms, I’m three months postpartum, and I feel like the postpartum period is really starting to hit me now. I feel very lonely and, I don’t know how to explain it, but I have this feeling that something is different. I’m not exactly sad, but I often feel overwhelmed, I overthink everything, and I feel lost. I don’t feel like myself anymore. I feel like I’ve become a different person. It’s like I’m here physically, but I’m not fully present. I feel disconnected from myself sometimes.
I’m also feeling very alone. My husband is a truck driver, so most of the time it’s just me and the baby. I love my baby so much, but I feel like I’ve lost a part of myself and I’m trying to find her again.
I would really appreciate any advice, experiences, or encouragement from other moms who have felt this way. Did anyone else feel like this around three months postpartum? How did you get through it?