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So my Mum takes care of my bunny back home in Canada and anytime she picks up supplies I always pay her back within 1-2 days (takes time because of coming from a UK bank) she knows this... Yesterday she stated she picked some stuff up, so as usual I said I will be sending her money in 1-2 days to cover it. AFTER we had the convo I sent her a video of our son (her grandson) building a big tower out of mega blocks for the first time, she replied by sending me a photo of a receipt where she circled what I owe her... Again she knows and we already had the conversation prior to this, that as I ALWAYS do and have been doing for the last 2-3 years will pay her back. It bugged me because i was sharing a cute moment and she didn't even respond to what I sent and to top it off she hasn't video called him in 2+ months. Would this bother you? I would look at it differently if maybe I had a habit of not paying her back but I always do all the time and she knows this. It just pissed me off because the only time she ever sends a receipt is if I ask so I know how much to give her back.

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Do you talk outside of the talk about the bunny? 🐰

Maybe she overlooked it. Is it possible?

If it just happened one time I wouldnt stress over it 😌

Maybe it makes her sad she isn’t there I know it’s hard when we are happy enjoying our time to see the other side and people can get jealous over missing out, she sounds like a good mum as most probably wouldn’t look after a bunny that wasn’t there’s for that long with just supplies paid for and it must be hard not being with her child and grandchild maybe it’s just me overthinking though

I just wouldnt be chasing anyone to have a relationship with my child. This specific incident wouldn't bother me, the underlying problem would.

Why don't you just sell the bunny? If you never see it and your mum's taking care of it why wouldn't you sell it?

Yes, this would piss me off

As I remember you don’t have a easy relationship with your mom, from previous posts. If she is not willing to know her grandson, I wouldn’t bother anymore, it’s her lost. But I’m truly sorry you still battled with this.

Yes! My partner sent MIL a photo of our 12 week scan as soon as it had finished and she sent back a photo of her dog.. we didn’t send updates unless asked after that, which I’d recommend!

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Would this bother you?

So my Mum takes care of my bunny back home in Canada and anytime she picks up supplies I always pay her back within 1-2 days (takes time because of coming from a UK bank) she knows this... Yesterday she stated she picked some stuff up, so as usual I said I will be sending her money in 1-2 days to cover it. AFTER we had the convo I sent her a video of our son (her grandson) building a big tower out of mega blocks for the first time, she replied by sending me a photo of a receipt where she circled what I owe her... Again she knows and we already had the conversation prior to this, that as I ALWAYS do and have been doing for the last 2-3 years will pay her back. It bugged me because i was sharing a cute moment and she didn't even respond to what I sent and to top it off she hasn't video called him in 2+ months. Would this bother you? I would look at it differently if maybe I had a habit of not paying her back but I always do all the time and she knows this. It just pissed me off because the only time she ever sends a receipt is if I ask so I know how much to give her back.

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