Bestie

Looking for my mom bestie , gotta be willing to text , talk otp from time to time & possibly link up . Able to do long distance as well 🫶🏽

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I wanna mommy girlie friend

NC native. Bisexual.
Just looking for a mutual momma friend to make my girlie friend

You know what would be nice? Having a friend that you can text or call about ANYTHING. No tmi or shyness just open conversations, advice or even just trauma dump. Laugh with. Text at random times and enjoy a wholesome conversation. Being 31 its so damn hard making friends as a SAHM. Anyone wanna bullshit with me?

Am I being dramatic?

I've been feeling absolutely terrible in my relationship and I've been going to chatgpt to ask questions and ask if I'm asking for too much etc. chat has been making me feel like I need to leave the relationship although specifically chat has not encouraged a breakup but the things it says make me feel like I'm accepting too much bs from my bf

I wanna ask, am I doing too much getting emotional over what an ai is telling me? Bc I know there's ppl that use chat too much and don't consider anything else. But I feel like I resonate with what it says a lot of the time.

Should I trust it? Both my gut and an ai are telling me the same thing

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would love a close mommy friend , location doesn't matter. All I ask is we talk everyday lol 🥰😅

Friendship brake downs

Hi
So since the age of 18 I’ve had one main group of girlfriends. There 5 of us. Now we’re all nearly 40, we’ve seen each other go through a lot. We’ve welcomed children, get married, get divorced, loose parents, have breast cancer diagnosis, get jobs, loose jobs etc…. We’ve been through a lot.

I don’t want to loose my relationship with these woman, but for a while now our relationship with each other has been mainly through just doing the odd day out with the kids. I can’t even remember the last time we had drinks together, went for a meal or even just hung out with a takeaway.
I know it changes with kids. I’m the last to have a baby and I’ve barely had the time to shower, never mind see the girls for cocktails. So I get it. Money can be tight and people have busy lives.

But I don’t want this to be the end of a really special friendship group. We don’t even chat about fun gossip anymore. I hesitate to say things now even in our WhatsApp chat. As an example I tried a new makeup and loved it and I wanted to share it with my friends but I hesitated because we just don’t really chat like that anymore.

We just organise a meet up and try attempt to fill each other in with what’s happening in our lives while supervising a bunch of kids. Which is almost impossible to hold a decent conversation with kids around. After that there zero girl chat.

I miss it but don’t know if this is normal, if it’s just a phase or if we’re drifting apart.

Anyone else been through this?

I need tips with how I can maybe turn this around.

Anyone having trouble finding or keeping friends?

I just feel like is impossible, i always try to do my best, give all my heart, my help to be a good friend but somehow everyone is turning their back at me. Am I the problem?