Libido

Almost 6 months pp and no sex drive whatsoever ...
Has anybody been to the GP? Perhaps there's something they can prescribe ? Not sure if that can work with breastfeeding ...

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It’s the breastfeeding reducing your libido! 😊

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Hey, anyones work place hiring for work from home? Don’t want to send my child to daycare🫶🏼.

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Redundancy- losing nursery place:’)

So lost. I currently wfh which means I can get the 30 free hours of childcare. I have a. 2 y/o and 8 month old. I’ve just found out I’m most likely being made redundant and I’ve been applying to other remote roles with no luck, and can’t do an in person role because the 8 month old doesn’t have a space till September. Now I’m going to have to pull my 2 y/o out of nursery and I’ll have to cancel both their spaces as there’s a very low chance I’ll be able to get & start a new job in September exactly & won’t have anyone to watch them when I get one till I qualify again as both parents have to earn £800+ a month. It’s a catch 22 situation. I’m so stuck, hurt and lost. Been in the company for 4 years and now my dreams of them both going to nursery, having a good job & going to uni are shattered till my youngest is 5 and i have no idea what to do

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Fiance got into an accident and his ex showed up at the hospital and made a scene

So my fiance was taken to a different hospital after a hit and run tonight, and he hasn’t been here in several years so his emergency contact info was still his ex, who is absolutely crazy. She showed up, and she lives closer so she got here first and was let back. When I got here, they tried to get her out and she flipped out. She had to be escorted out and was smashing shit, calling him a pussy and saying he has no balls, and screaming that I’m a cry baby bitch (I wasn’t even crying).

I’m honestly just worried, and didn’t have the energy for her, so I told her I understand she’s worried and if she could be civil, she could stay. She told me to go home and said he belongs to her and always will and I’m just an obstacle in their path to forever.

She was making threats down the hall to call my job and get me fired. Saying I use my child to manipulate my boyfriend into loving me. And he repeatedly kept telling her that their relationship is not what is important right now. So she ended up being forced to leave, and now she’s sitting outside our house while I’m still in the trauma unit waiting to hear more.

My fiance is literally in trauma from a hit and run, and she’s worried about who he loves more. Her or his current fiance.

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To play or not to play?!

My “ex” and I ended things in March (still fresh). I have been mentally done since January.
He doesn’t seem to register this - we still live together until our tenancy ends this month. Still calling me “babe”; still “unsure” why I want to co-parent. Still sees a future.

Yesterday he complained I was “starving him of sex” - we haven’t had sex since January because I just haven’t wanted him or the relationship hence detaching sexually. I also feel sex is how he keeps me hooked in the chaos (because we enjoy each other when we do).
He says we can repair and still be having sex.

Anyway it got hot and heavy last night and we almost did.
I felt like it was a moment of weakness to almost give in to him; however I now can’t stop thinking about it and want it.

Do I just give in as we’re about to move out?
Or
Hold my stance and maintain that I don’t want to go there with him?!

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Husband doesn’t last long 😩

Since becoming pregnant, we haven’t been intimate as much as we used too, and obviously since having our LO it’s difficult (we have a bad sleeper) so we’re both tired and don’t have energy. However, he is in the mood more than I am. I feel like when we do have sex, it literally lasts less than a minute - then I think what’s the point lol. I understand because we don’t do it that often, it’s probably be the reason, so we’ve tried doing it more often and it still doesn’t make a difference.

We tried foreplay more, but it also doesn’t make a difference, as when we do come to have sex, it’s over even quicker.

Venting or after advice??? Who knows, just fed up 🥲

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Mom Friends

If you’ve successfully made mom friends, do you SAH, work in office, or work from home?

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