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Should I Stay or Leave?

Hey Ladies, my husband and I have been married for 2 years and we have a 17 months old together. He does not help with the bay at all, he works and pay all the bill while I care for our child and go to school. I recently found that he’s been cheating with multiple women, he lies he cheat he sleep in the other room most of the time. I’ve voiced out many times that I feel like we’re just roommate and I’m not fulfilled emotionally but he keeps pulling away. I want my son to have a sibling to play and grow up with but I’m conflicted because I know long term if he doesn’t change we’re not gonna work out. So should I still have the second baby at least I know I’m done having kids and my son has a sibling or should I stay until u get my stuff in order then leave?

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I’m sorry hun but this shouldn’t even be a question. He’s cheating on you. He doesn’t seem to care about you, doesn’t help with your child, he puts you through constant emotional turmoil. Leaving and getting into a more stable, happy environment for you and your baby should be priority number one. It would be selfish to bring a second child into such strife, and you should not feel by any means that staying married is more beneficial to you or your baby than being free of someone who treats you like you are worth nothing. I know it will be hard because he’s paying for things right now, but please prioritize leaving for the sake of yourself and your child.

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Yup get yourself together and leave but don’t let him know your trying to gain ur independence back then leave do it in silence so he don’t make it hard for u or stop u

I would definitely get my stuff in order before leaving. Idk about having the second baby that decision is yours. Maybe contact a divorce lawyer to secretly to see whats the best way yo leave.

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