I have low libido

I am 6 weeks PP. I have a very loving, supportive, and caring husband who does what he can to help take care of our baby.
Right now he is feeling very sexual towards me, but I'm not feeling it right now. I do love him so very much, it's just
I'm still recovering from a c-section and I've been in and out of the hospital for 3 weeks after having my baby.

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Take your time he needs to understand that you went thru the most traumatic experience. Plus body is still healing. Dont feel pressured!

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Ewww tell him to piss off! He needs to respect your boundaries and these are that your body belongs to you right now until you feel ready to share it again. If he can't understand that then separate bedrooms

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I think it’s pretty normal to have low libido. You just went through so much!! And you are recovering for like 2 years, so it makes sense things will be different for a bit. It’s ok to say no and they should respect that

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I have low libido

I am 6 weeks PP. I have a very loving, supportive, and caring husband who does what he can to help take care of our baby.
Right now he is feeling very sexual towards me, but I'm not feeling it right now. I do love him so very much, it's just
I'm still recovering from a c-section and I've been in and out of the hospital for 3 weeks after having my baby.

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