Tell me if I’m crazy

Soooo my BD right when I first told him I was pregnant he was 20 and I’m 23 and he wanted nothing to do with the baby I told him like hey you know I hear you but I’m not gonna get an abortion for your expense so I said I will raise this baby alone ur good he agreed cool me and this girl have been off and on for years now so me and my now wife ended up getting together and she stepped it and decided to help me and help raise my daughter now when I got married my BD came back in my phone and my family saying I’m keeping him away from his child mind you he didn’t want to be apart of her life up until someone else stepped it so fast forward the baby born I put my wife on the birth certificate cause we are married and she stepped up right I don’t regret that choice at all but it’s like now he trying to be involved and I’m not gonna keep him away from her but at the same time this man don’t have his life together and I feel like he coming in for the wrong reasons not only that all of a sudden he wants a paternity test like your weird I don’t know my baby has two loving parents and I don’t like the picking and choosing you don’t get to pick and choose when to be a parent I’m a mother 25/8 you know am I in the wrong if I completely cut him off

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i don’t think it’s right to cut him off completely BUT if you think he’s still needs to get his shit together n you think he’s coming in for the wrong reasons i think it’s fair enough to set some standards up for him n if he can meet them THEN he can see your baby. unless he’s doing/has done anything that you think could harm you or your baby!!!

Yeah he’s a nut job.

For the sake of your daughter, I wouldn’t cut him off. Yes, she has two loving parents, but one day she’s going to want to know about her father. If you cut him off and she finds out when she’s older, she may resent you for not allowing her to have a relationship with him. He could also petition the court for custody as well. I don’t really have any advice, but just wanted you to see the other sides of how this could play out.

Girl you doing you already and fuck what anyone else has to say u been doing it since birth u are happy married and motherfuckers wanna tell u other wise so no girl leave his ass in the past u gave him a chance to man up and that’s just that. Chapter close

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