How do I move on?

Your allowed to be “difficult” during postpartum your hormones are wild and you have gone through the biggest changes physically and mentally , the fact he has done this to you when your feeling your most vulnerable is disgusting and has shown you his true colours I’m sorry I don’t have advice to get over it other than focus on yourself and your baby as much as you can pour into your baby try to find joy in the little things with them xx

First of you get out of there because that is horrendously toxic! Or you tell him to get out considering you’ve had a baby (fully appreciate this may be difficult, but I’d make this your priority!) What he’s borderline telling you almost sounds like abuse by constantly putting you down lovely. If he’s cheated, just let him carry on. It was never you that made the mistakes only him. My ex was lying to me for 2.5 years about a lot and was blaming me for a lot of it to. Fuck me! It was absolutely not my fault!! His choices, didn’t realise he was incapable of making his own! Just let him get on with it, he’s most likely doing it to hurt you, so don’t give him that pleasure. Focus on you and baby, that is all that matters x