I was washing my 4 year old’s penis and when I rolled back the foreskin to clean inside there were some white things, what is it?

Is it an infection?
It was sort of clotted. I was able to wash it off so I don’t know if taking him to the doctors would be worth it as it’s gone.
Also I’ve taught him to use a tissue to clean drips after peeing so could it be tissue he didn’t clean properly? Only reason I don’t think it’s tissue is because it wouldn’t have entered that far back I think
Has anyone else found this when washing their boy?

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What should I do ?

Me and my other half been together for about 2 years we have a baby boy he acts like he cares about me and I just recently found out that I’m pregnant again and ever since we found out he been distant never wanting to kiss me then he ask if I’m going to keep the baby I really want to keep it but I’m afraid to say yes but then I’m also afraid he would tell me to leave but I have absolutely no other place to stay but with him he also threats me about leaving me and saying I can’t take my son with me if I decide to leave so I stay he also wants an open relationship and I honestly don’t really like that idea so I honestly don’t know what to do
PLEASE HELP

Depressed mama

To the SAHM how are y’all happy?? I have my days where I’m ok but for the last 4yrs I been so freaking depressed…. Well I been dealing with babydaddy drama so that’s been the main cause but I’m just scrolling on here and really realized I have no life outside of being a mother…. Idk what I like I thought I did… like wtf am I doing with my life??? I have no friends we all just faded from each other…. It’s sooo hard to find a damn job… but somehow I still manage 🤷🏽‍♀️ I just want a friend I’m tired of being lonely ☹️

Hate my husband

I have been feeling like my life has changed after having a baby but same doesn’t go for my husband.. i had my parents to help with my baby because i broke my leg & was immobile for 2 months now im able to walk but still restricted.. can’t hold my baby because its scary.. we just had the biggest fight & i told him lets separate so he was like okay i will put in a request & started blackmailing me because im on dependent visa.. i do want to come in good terms with him & also make him understand what im going through how do i do it?

Tell me if I’m crazy

Soooo my BD right when I first told him I was pregnant he was 20 and I’m 23 and he wanted nothing to do with the baby I told him like hey you know I hear you but I’m not gonna get an abortion for your expense so I said I will raise this baby alone ur good he agreed cool me and this girl have been off and on for years now so me and my now wife ended up getting together and she stepped it and decided to help me and help raise my daughter now when I got married my BD came back in my phone and my family saying I’m keeping him away from his child mind you he didn’t want to be apart of her life up until someone else stepped it so fast forward the baby born I put my wife on the birth certificate cause we are married and she stepped up right I don’t regret that choice at all but it’s like now he trying to be involved and I’m not gonna keep him away from her but at the same time this man don’t have his life together and I feel like he coming in for the wrong reasons not only that all of a sudden he wants a paternity test like your weird I don’t know my baby has two loving parents and I don’t like the picking and choosing you don’t get to pick and choose when to be a parent I’m a mother 25/8 you know am I in the wrong if I completely cut him off

I feel like if I had more money I would eat more healthier. I eat pretty healthy but just like getting a bunch of healthy snacks I can't afford it the whole month. I can afford it for a couple weeks but then it gets hard..

I work for the school district so we get paid once a month. I did get a pay upgrade but it's still hard when you get paid once a month. Has anyone else had the same struggles ?

Child maintenance - is he working this out wrong?

My ex is telling me that he only needs to enter into the online calculator how much he earns AFTER he deducts his non taxable income. So for example say he earns £32570 he’s saying he only needs to base it off £20000…is this right?! I’ve just been putting his salary in without any deductions. He’s very reluctant to go through the proper channels and I’m wondering whether he’s reluctant because he’s lying about his income