I mean besides a quick trip to the park or store. An activity like the museum or the mall or an arcade. I’m so tired. I’m a single mom w NO village and my energy Sat & Sunday is so low I just want to lay. My son goes to a Montessori daycare so he’s stimulated all day during the week. So on the weekends he’s ready to go go go. I’ll try to get us outside But then the tantrum aspect of toddlerhood kicks in and he fights me to get dressed and out the door. We get where we’re going but eventually there’s and other tantrum. It’s so much work. But in the house he’s bored. He’s throwing stuff at me and acting out. It’s like I can’t win
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First - this age is just hard. And being a single mom is the hardest job in the world, so please give yourself grace.
I’m a SAHM and my 3.5 yo only recently started preschool 2 days/week 9-1. I also have an 8mo. As hard as it is to get out of the house, I find our days are smoother if we do. If we’re in the house all day, my older will get a little squirrely. But often that means running an errand and going on a long walk / bike / scoot. And he has an indoor swim class on Saturdays (that I don’t have to get in the pool for!) which gives us an activity but I can sit with baby.
It does get easier as they get a little bigger and more rational. We really have turned a corner at 3.5 and I can see the light at the end of the tunnel but 3-3.5 was rough for us

I am at a SAHM with a 2 year old and 6 month old and we get out of the house almost every day. Being inside all day is just no fun for any of us but big activities like zoo or museum is like 1-2 a month, but everyday we go to the park, or for a walk, or to the grocery store, or even just for a drive because these kids are crazy. My son does have tantrums quite often but they are pretty manageable and he does like going places so most of the time tantrums are close to nap time or bedtime when he’s just tired and over it.

I try to get my 2 year old out everyday. We do the park, walks, beach, zoo, library, etc. I'm currently 26 weeks pregnant with twins so I'm not moving as easily as before. But I feel guilty staying home since I can set my work schedule

Yes, we do! My daughter wakes up at 5 so we are already climbing the walls by 8am. We have swimming lessons on a weekend morning and then either have a day out from there or come home for lunch/nap and then head out again in the afternoon

Yes but its mostly for me. Before having a baby i was doing things every weekend to keep myself busy so still do it now for the same reasons.

My son is in nursery 8.30am to 5.30pm Monday to Friday. Most weekends we are home but once a month we go for a day out

I have to leave the house, I'd go insane
So park, library, shops, walk in the woods, play gym. I'm lucky in the fact that my son is always happy to get out too. Even if it's raining all day, we'll get togged up and go and splash in the puddles

I’m a SAHM with a go go go toddler and 7month old. We get out to do something every day or we all go crazy (and the toddler tantrums are wayyyy worse if we just stay in). We only do big things like once a month!
I’d say if your kid is used to Montessori they may do well just going to a park and playing independently.
Find a good sand pit, put out a picnic blanket, and tell them where they may play and that you are resting (or bring a book or journal or some little project to do). You don’t have to be hands-on, just close enough they know you’re there (and other people know it’s not just a stray kiddo)!

Yea we do. If you’re tired though I suggest skate park or playcentre or bounce place or water park- somewhere you can sit and have your coffee and just watch them have at it, or just follow them. They’ll find someone their age to play with/follow, my boy always does. We schedule lots of play dates on weekends too- things to do w people or meet somewhere. Yesterday was 3 mums 4 kids at the park, we all brought something each to share for food

Yes girl, you have to leave the house or else they will go crazy.
Bring a book, beer, or a friend so you don’t get bored. But in the long run, there’s so much to see outside of the house so you have to to get them out
Pleaseeee be honest because I’ve heard so many contradictions, does sucking thumb mess up toddlers teeth in future? If yes, how do I stop him doing it!?
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My husband the past 2 days has come home from work after being gone all day and as soon as he comes in the door says he’s going upstairs to work on his leg that has been tight and aching. And left me to get the kids dinner, and do their whole bed time routine alone because it’s taken that long for him to do his stuff. When I had a problem with it he acted like I’m the bad guy because “he’s been gone all day and not had a minute to himself”. Am I wrong for being upset???
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For context I am a fully qualified early years teacher and I am more than competent in teaching and looking after my daughter.
We recently got a confirmation that our daughter can start nursery in 2028. (She will be 2) however I’ve realised I’m not comfortable with this (history of working in nursery’s and knowing what happens behind the scenes) and also I can simply do it all myself and I am happy to.
My husband tells me that he wants her to start nursery then and not stay home and let me care for her because she needs to go to nursery. I don’t understand why he would rather send her to be cared for by random people when I’m a stay at home mum and qualified to do it myself.
I also don’t really see how he gets much of a say in it (outside of just a general opinion) as it doesn’t affect him at all whether she is home with me or at nursery as I’ll be doing it all anyway? And he will be saving money if she doesn’t go…
Parents who have not sent their child to nursery can you comment experiences.
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I am 36 and about to have my 3rd baby. The father and I didn't work out. I'm feeling pretty down about that tonight & idk how to lift myself up from it. I am almost 40 and have never had anyone actually choose me and love me and at this point I dont think I will ever feel that. Each of my kids have different fathers, the first isnt involved at all, the second is sporadically involved, and the third hasn't been there for me throughout this entire pregnancy. He's been around sure, but its only for the baby. He never actually chose to care about me. I'm just tired. Tired of always being dismissed or walked away from. Tired of having to spend this life fighting and surviving. Tired of not having anyone to turn to for support. I have no friends and hardly any family. I just feel so alone. & idk who is going to want me after having three children with three different fathers, plus having a newborn at 36 years old. . I just want it to end already.
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How many snacks are your LO on? And what sort of times are you offering them?
I'd love suggestions too as I'm stuck beyond banana and cheese 😂
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Has anyone started thinking about what they’re doing for their little ones first birthday? We were going to do a party but because I’ll have only just gone back to work we just can’t really afford it. Obviously we want to do something special. We live in Staffordshire if anyone has any ideas!
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