Big feelings

I cry over every time my husband isn’t around and that’s messed up people aren’t coming and told you so close to your shower don’t feel bad for being upset. That doesn’t make you selfish

I was a big feelings gal pre-pregnancy, hormones have only added to that. Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re being dramatic or too much or stupid, including yourself.
Your feelings are trying to communicate something to you. Feel them. Take note of what information they might give you. Then give yourself time to process the information. If you were being mean to others because you feel bad I would say you’re not reacting properly, but crying is absolutely acceptable.
Personally, folks cancelling last minute would really trigger my abandonment wound, which isn’t silly or small, even if the baby shower itself isn’t a trivial matter (I also think it is trivial lol). 💜 be kind to yourself

Pregnancy is difficult, hang in there girl!

I cried because a lady was running a marathon and her husband was cheering for her. lol