silly question for trans people...
I'm a bit ignorant about this, and sorry in advance. I just want to know more so I don't fuck up.
I have a coworker who's a trans man (born girl, just to clarify) and I really like him and want to be his friend, but as I said, I don't know a lot of stuff and I don't want to make him uncomfortable or anything.
My question is: Is it rude to point out that I never thought they were trans? Like, he looks like a cis man. I thought this and almost said it, but then wondered if it would make him uncomfortable?
Please share you're experiences, or advice, or anything at all about this topic. EXCEPT HATE, NO ONE CARES THE UGLY THINGS YOU THINK, KEEP IT TO YOURSELF, thank you! :)
Sex during pregnancy
I’m currently 38 weeks pregnant, and me and my partner have had sex a total of maybe 3-4 times or less this whole pregnancy and it’s my fault.
I’ve always been insecure of my body but before this pregnancy I was losing weight and becoming a bit more comfortable and confident with what I looked like,
Now, I feel disgusting, I feel gross, I feel like a fat ugly hippo, I have no effort to put any work into my appearance, my hair is always left natural and thrown in a bun, I don’t try attempt to put makeup on, I have zero clothes that fit me and look acceptable on me so I tend to wear the same clothes over and over again if not just my sleepwear and tend to stay inside all day.
I also now have external hemaroids which I’m terrified of my partner seeing cause it feels gross to me, so it only really leaves missionary which isn’t my favorite, it kinda puts strain on my bump , and I hate having to see my big fat stomach which just puts me off.
Sometimes when he’s just running his hands on my thighs or something, it makes me cringe, and I feel like a terrible partner
My issue is that I feel guilty, he’s tried to initiate it a few times and I’ve shoved him off me, rudely said no, he is a man and I know he has needs and I know he can repeat that it’s okay and he understands how I feel but I know deep down it can’t be enjoyable for him getting zero action.
