Is it wrong that....I dont really want to have sex with my bf like....4-5 times a day? Or give him bjs all the time? Or that i dont eant to suck him off for 20ish minutes just to make him cum?

I feel like....hes made it a requirement. Even though he doesnt say it...it feels like it because he pays for alot and does alot for me and my daughter even though we dont live together. Idk....is there something wrong with me? I enjoy sex with him but sometimes my girl needs a break just to clean herself ya know? My girl has been sore and and sometimes gets irritated from to much sex but...he doesnt listen sometime and subconsciously makes me feel bad for not wanting to have sex...iv talked with him but...idk....I feel like ik disappointing him.

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4 to 5 times a day?!? How do you even have time to take care of anything or for him to go to work?!? My bf and I have sex once a week and most people consider that high for our age group, being parents, and us working full time.

You’re not wrong his drive is just insanely high, like I’d wonder if he’s got a sex addiction high. Your body is sore and irritated from too much sex because it is too much sex.

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Please read what you wrote. You know the answer to this. This isn’t normal. Stand up for yourself.

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My baby daddy likes sex a lot we have sex that much sometimes. It’s natural to want sex that much especially when you work. 5 times doesn’t have to take that long. I used to work 16 hours a day and spend 2 hours in bed having sex before going to bed it helped me sleep. Since we had our bay we’re not trying to have another so we have sex differently but he still wants to get laid any time I’m in the mood. I’m just not trying to get pregnant again so I tend to just give him back massages now

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If you don’t wanna do it that much tell him

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Tell him you want back massages every time you sleep with him

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If he can’t give you a massage he doesn’t need a blow job

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