I hate trying to make friends

After having kids making friends is just the worst thing ever . I want a friend who doesn’t already have a best friend lol is that bad to say ?? But I’ve made up my mind to just stop looking. I’ll talk to people if I meet any.

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Hey I’m Hannah!! 💕

Looking for a local or long-distance bestie who replies 😂 I’m talking memes, late-night chats, random food cravings, and a little harmless gossip. I’m pretty easygoing, a little sarcastic, and always down for good food and good conversation. Just looking for a real bestie with fun energy 💕

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Friends?

How difficult is to make friends on your 30’s right? Add to the mix a little baby and that is mission impossible.
Anyone feels the same?

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Where are you

Looking for local moms who are truly serious about building genuine, lasting friendships!

​I’m based in the North Mississippi area, but I am definitely open to long-distance connections as long as you are willing to remain consistent. We are all grown and lead busy lives, so I’m not looking for someone to text or talk to every second of the day—but I am looking for real effort.

​I’m tired of having my time wasted with surface-level small talk that goes nowhere. If you’re ready to put in the work to build a "forever friendship" and want a circle that actually sticks, let’s connect and get to know each other! 🥂✨

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Alright genuinely how do you guys make and keep friends?

I'm so tired of not having any friends... All my old friends don't talk to me after I had kids.. My best friend didn't even invite me to her birthday and she always chooses her other friend over me on my birthday... And everytime I try to make friends on here I get ghosted... I don't know what i'm doing wrong... Everyone in my life always says how kind and caring I am, so why doesnt anyone stick around? I mean I get it that there's stuff going on, people can't always respond that's fine. But people just flat out ghost me never responds again, or I'm the one that constantly has to keep up conversation. I just want a friend that I can talk to and laugh with and have a connection... Idk maybe it's not possible with kids until much later... I feel so alone

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Am I making a mistake?

A few years ago my partner hit me. He suffers from PTSD and has since had therapy and we got back together etc.

Since, I haven't been able to relax enough to 'enjoy' sex. I haven't climaxed with him for 3 years. I sunk into a depression and we separated for a bit but at the moment we are together again but living apart. We have discussed these problems I'm having and he's tried to 'help' but I just can't 'get there'.

Generally, he's now almost perfect but our sex life is literally me being used for a few minutes, he rolls over and goes to bed. He gets cross / offended if I bring it up or if looks like I'm not enjoying it as he's tried his best....

Is this what it's meant or be like after so many years together? Am I asking too much? Or are we done?

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In/Out of love?

Does anyone ever see other couples and feel like “wow I can see they’re in love” or you can just see they truly love each other, OR you see couples and thing “that’s how it’s supposed to be” and then when you look at your own relationship its nothing like how other couples appear?

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