Ranting because i have no one/Advice welcome

Me and my baby daddy have been together almost 2 years and when we found out i was pregnant he was so excited but now it seems like he barely even remembers or cares about anything other than the gender and it having a name he wants, took me begging him to start looking at names and he’s been of no help trying to find a OB or hospital to use..he’s helped with practically nothing and just complains about when he’s hurting or in pain..like how do you think i feel. And every time i ask him to help research or say im overwhelmed he just acts like its not that big of a deal..i feel like I’m doing this alone and its getting old. We have 2 big dogs and he hasn’t taken them out in weeks even on his days off he doesn’t take care of them to give me a break and they were his dogs before we even met (i take them out (down and up stairs every time which is gonna be hard when the baby gets here) i also feed them and take care of the house and make dinner every night) Thinking about just moving back to Illinois to my moms atp. Its just getting annoying especially cuz half the time he don’t even act like he wants anything to do with me..i feel like i shouldn’t be begging for a bf who cares about me or our future kid.

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If he doesn't watch his own dogs and puts that on you, trust me he'll be the same with the baby! Expect to be doing most of the work! Been there done that . He's an X now

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