going soft during sex
sorry idk if this is tmi but i started dating this guy 2 months ago, so it’s still early but we’ve had sex a few times and it’s always been really good, until last night where we were having sex for about an hour, he didn’t cum and then went soft whilst we were having sex.. i just feel so insecure like it’s my fault. i literally started crying after because im worried he doesn’t find me attractive. he apologised and said he doesn’t know why it happened but idk, maybe it’s just my insecurities but im worried he doesn’t find me as attractive as he says he does
he is older than me (he’s 45, im 22) so idk if it’s like an age thing, or if it’s just normal or what idk i’ve never had this with a guy before
Finding my Village far from home
Moving countries as a mum can feel incredibly lonely. Not having a support network is hard, but what hurts the most is seeing your child grow up without little friends around.
I’ve tried parks, cafés, libraries… but it often feels like there’s an invisible barrier. Sometimes people don’t make eye contact, or keep their distance, and it can be really discouraging.
My little one turned 2 years old next month and we will didn’t have a single baby to celebrate with.
It’s been tough, and I know I can’t be the only one feeling this way.
I’d really love to connect with other mums who are open, kind, and willing to build a sense of community—because we all deserve that, and so do our children 🤍
All this make me feel and think this now the correct how we want raise all children's without empathy for another one.
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