Is this an awful thing to say?

I’m going through post partum anxiety and my partner hasn’t been great at all. I have been crying to him about supporting me more and he said “I can’t deal with this I better end things with you now as you’ll be even worse when you hit menopause” he said this in a serious tone. I’m 27 and I asked him why would he say that and he said he has to think of his future too

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That’s an absolutely disgusting thing to say to a woman, even more so your PP partner who just went through childbirth and is voicing her need for support. Like wtf.

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I don't even know what he's talking about. What a child

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You better end things with him now, as he’ll be even worse when he’s required to be an active parent. You have a future to think of after all.

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please leave him. i left mine when my baby was 6 months and regret not leaving sooner.

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Omg ?? Men have no sort of empathy or compassion

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