My bd and I have been arguing a lot

Okay so we have a month old baby boy and I take care of him ALL day and ALL night. My bd does not work, he works from home. But He’s always on his video games. When I give him the baby to eat or to do anything, he comes to me 5 mins later and tells me “he wants mama”.. so I barely get anything done in the house. He gets mad at me because I don’t clean the house. Mind you it’s not even messy, it’s only dirty dishes or dirty laundry. He gets so upset that he has to do it. He calls me names like “stupid immigrant” and has threatened to take my baby away from me. Unfortunately I decided to move away 2,000+ miles away from my family to be with him and I can’t ask for their help. When I was around 7 weeks pregnant we got into a BIG fight because he hit me and I called the cops on him. He would call me a whore and that this baby wasn’t his. Lol I don’t know what to do. I can’t leave his ass because I don’t work.

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My ex and I broke up before I found out I was pregnant. Our child is now 18m and hes only started having him 1 night a fortnight (he does see child for a few hours a few times a week)
He wants to take our child away with his family for 8 days in August. I originally said no, cos child hasnt spent that long away from me and is with.me 90% of the time.
Im starting to reconsider, but he needs to do at least 2 nights in a row but he says he cant because of work. (Can't get that many Saturdays off) ive suggested he request flexible working from.work.

Basically, im just wondering what other people's opinions are? Theres no right or wrong, I just want to see what others would say/do.
Thank you

New here and it feels like when I was on hinge but like I’m now the man🤣

Anyone else?

If your partner never complimented you would it get to you? Upset/annoy you for example.

I have asked him why he doesn't compliment me on many occasions. He either ignores me, huffs and shruggs, or says he doesn't think I deserve it ... 🤨

But it is making me feel ugly and rubbish about myself now. I can't remember the last time he complimented me but he is one of those who constantly stares at other women though even though I've said I don't like it and it upset me.

But as for the original question - would it annoy you/upset you/make you feel shit if your partner never complimented you?

Working/ SAHM

Which is more difficult?

Honestly think im just not cut out to have friends

I desperately want to make friends but I always seem to mess it up maybe im just not meant to have any?

Looking for my bestie

Okay I’m just gonna be real 😂

I need a friend. Like a real one. Someone I can text all day about random stuff, vent about motherhood, talk about our spouses (with love… but also honesty 😅), and yes—gossip a little too.

I’m an introvert and kinda socially awkward at first, so if you’re super outgoing and expect me to be loud right away… I’m not your girl lol. But if you’re chill, a little awkward too, and just want someone genuine—we’ll get along great.

I’m down for actually hanging out too—coffee dates, zoo trips, playdates for the kids, or even just sitting somewhere talking about life.

No judgment, no weird vibes, just real life and real friendship.

If that sounds like you, message me 🫶🏽