why am i not a good enough mom😔

U are good enough and why u think ur not good enough?

my youngest daughters ill my partner told me to give her a bath in the morning i never did it for no reason at all i just didn’t do it i just “couldn’t be bothered” or “ill do it later tonight” “she’ll be fine” i thought and i did, he asked if i did i said no and hes telling me i should of give her a bath in morning too how do u expect her to get better “useless” he called me but that’s not the first time he’s told me to do something and ive not done it for essentially no reason not like it’s a bad thing but i guess after a build up it can be annoying when i dont listen to the things he says i just now feel like im not good enough for my children why dont i just do the things he says or things iknow might help i just opt for the easy option all the time out of i genuinely cant tell if its laziness or tiredness or burnout or just a bad mom

This sounds like burnout babes, I can get a bit like this at times, if I desperately need a break, I have a toddler and a 13 year old, and I’m currently pregnant, and I’m sure you remember pregnant tired haha, your partner should be looking more at what’s going on with you, but maybe you need to sit down and talk with him and say you need some help, some support, why doesn’t he get up earlier and help you bath her, or say when I get home we will bath her together - this is what my partner will do. But don’t beat yourself up for being exhausted, 3 toddlers sounds absolutely crazy! Haha x