Looking for a bestie

My name is Leilani,I’m from nyc the Bronx I have a 2 year old currently pregnant with my second baby girl looking for a new bestie someone I can relate too🙂

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Looking for a bestie - FL

Hey everyone, my name is Tira I’m a mom of 2 boys ; 2 year one and a 1 year old 🩵

Looking for a genuine life long friend 🫶🏼

(Distance doesn’t matter, if you’re wanting to be friends let me know!🥰)

I had my 6 week pp check yesterday and I got cleared and accepted birth control but I’m very nervous about taking them. The last time I had birth control I had the implant and had really bad depression and anxiety. And I’m also worried that I might not want another child. I just think I’m mostly worried about my mental health on birth control.

Lack of village

I’m expecting my second baby in late June early July. I’m desperately trying to figure out child care for my two year old while I deliver. My parents live two and a half hours away and frankly are less than dependable. They have let us down several times. I have one close friend who could potentially watch my daughter at-least until my parents arrive. I’m nervous to ask her because she’s very early in her own pregnancy and is of course absolutely exhausted. I’m just so tired of never having a village or any family to depend on.

Lonely

I’m a Sahm mom to a 17 month old and I absolutely love love love being a sahm, but it gets lonely. I try so hard making friends even on here but on here I’m the only one who seems to message and/or keep up the conversation and if I don’t message first. It’s like that’s it. It’s the same in my life. I have a couple friends and I’m always the one to reach out and schedule things and if I don’t then it’s nothing. The same with my family. I feel so burnt out in the people department. My husband works alot and our only village is my husband and I. It gets lonely because most of the time he gets home from work and wants to be on the game or his phone. I just want a couple girlfriends and to build a village but sometimes it seems impossible.

Anemia

Any other anemia mamas? I was in L&D the other day for high bp and checking for preeclampsia. While I was there they rechecked my iron levels because I’ve already been out on supplements. Even with the supplements it’s still dropping! My ferritin is at a 6. I have to start IV infusions but the anemia clinic can’t even get me in for the consult until 5/22.

Why is it so hard to find mom friends?!

Im trying to figure out why it is crazy hard to find another momma who is around my age (30 🤢) has 4 kids and them be around the same age as mine!