I need input...

I'm chronically ill and my husband knows this. He helps me but each time, he seems to resent me. Like, last week I was working (we own a shop and it was his evening off, my evening to close), and I got such a bad ocular migraine that I couldn't see anything but directly in front of me. It got so bad that a panic attack started and my right arm went numb. He came and resentfully drove me home, worked the last two hours of my shift and made sure I knew he'd be off the entire day the next day to make up for that shet.

Fast forward to tonight. I was laying in bed trying to wind down and my blood sugar dropped badly. I was suddenly sweating, not even shaking, it was THAT bad. I got up to stuff my face with something. I grabbed the last store bought cinnamon roll and just started eating it in my underwear. He snapped at me, "aren't you on wegovy? You're eating a lot lately." And I stopped in shock. I know I'm fat but fukk, you don't have to be like that. My blood sugar dropped and I needed sugar/carbs or I'd have passed out! Then I sat on the couch, where I am now, and he guilted me for being up at 2:40 when he was up all night last night, and I have an excuse. I'm just pissed. Why are things like this?

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My daughter is begging to go to Disney world have y’all been yet?

She turns 3 in July

But she’s also obsessed with Harry Potter so I’m considering universal 👀

Am I wrong

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How do I operate without the tablet

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When I have my child I take maybe an hour and spend time with him but youre telling me theres still 11 to 13 hours in the day where I dont know what to do. And most of the time our son just wants to sit in my lap in his room. He doesnt play unless I play with him but I dont have the energy

Parenting

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How do you do it?

Hi! I have a 3 year old and a 6 month old. I just returned to work and it's been challenging. Trying to give myself grace but how do you juggle everything? Kids, spouse, work, house, dinner, bedtime etc? I work mostly in person and both kids are in daycare.