Need reassurance 😪

Anybody else not sending there little ones to pre school/nursery until 3? My lg was meant to be starting nursery soon but just found out she won’t get the funding so she can’t start until 3 when she will get 15hrs as we can’t afford to pay for it, my partner works full time & I don’t I’m a sahm atm, I have a disability which I’m battling with currently, but I feel like such a bad mum, I don’t get too do much with her we don’t go to any classes etc too so I was glad she was going to be mingling I feel like such a failure 😪

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Do you offer food before bed for your 1year old?

He has 3meals a day plus snacks and 3 bottles of cows milk.
He has a bottle of milk as hes going to sleep but since starting him on cows milk hes waking up at 5am, like hes starving, so notsure if I need to offer some food before bed aswell

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Am I wrong

I was feeding our 3 week old baby and asked my partner to take the pizza out the oven, he was just sitting on the couch. He refused to and said I should, I eventually did go get it out otherwise it would have burnt. Now I’m pissed off with him. He says I did nothing all day so I should have just done it. His idea of nothing is looking after a 3 week old and 2 year old all day.

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My daughter is begging to go to Disney world have y’all been yet?

She turns 3 in July

But she’s also obsessed with Harry Potter so I’m considering universal 👀

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How do I operate without the tablet

Ive been letting my 2 year old almost 3 have the tablet everyday. His dad takes it away when its his turn. But when its my turn to watch our child I let him have it and im on my phone all day. I literally dont know how to raise a child
When I have my child I take maybe an hour and spend time with him but youre telling me theres still 11 to 13 hours in the day where I dont know what to do. And most of the time our son just wants to sit in my lap in his room. He doesnt play unless I play with him but I dont have the energy

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Parenting

I live with my mum and my step dad, I think I’m doing good at parenting but everytime i do something, they have an opinion and make me feel like a bad mum. My daughter (only 5 weeks) just had a bath and my mum decided to lay her on the floor (with a playmat under her) and just leave her there to soak in the air, my daughter was yelling and screaming because I think she was cold but my step dad thinks because I hold her too much… it’s my choice on how I raise my daughter.

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How do you do it?

Hi! I have a 3 year old and a 6 month old. I just returned to work and it's been challenging. Trying to give myself grace but how do you juggle everything? Kids, spouse, work, house, dinner, bedtime etc? I work mostly in person and both kids are in daycare.

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