Finding night weaning really difficult/ mum guilt

I have started to wean my 12 month old of feeding to sleep. I am still offering milk in the night and before bed but not feeding to sleep. Baby wakes multiple times, often feeds for ages, falls asleep and wakes up again or does not transfer and I have to repeat the process again, sometimes multiple times for one wake up. I am 18 weeks pregnant and just can’t keep doing this due to exhaustion, becoming uncomfortable on my bump as baby only likes to feed whilst laying across me and I’m finding nipple sensitivity overwhelming.

I have tried offering cuddles instead but he just won’t go to sleep unless we battle through hours of sleep.

I am writing this crying as I feel extreme guilt hearing him crying for me to feed him.

I feel like a bad mum but I don’t know what else to do. I still want to bf him but I want to break this feed to sleep cycle.

Anyone been successful with this?

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AnE ??

Maybe I’m over panicking here - all day my son (3) has thrown up, if he ate (toast) he throws up, even without stomach contents he’s throwing up, has water, he throws up - he hasn’t weed since 9am when he did a poop. He’s very tired - this is a AnE trip right or am I overreacting ?

I’m already packing a bag as I write this but…am I being a panicked mum here

Going out during one and only nap

How do you do it?! I took my daughter out this morning and she fell asleep for 15 mins in the buggy at about 11am, and has been resisting her main nap today. Do you keep babies in the house in the morning to avoid this occurring? How do you do it?

Daily training- good progress

Daddy got the baby for the whole day yesterday and somehow did all 5 activities from the daily plan 🤣
She came back to me at bedtime fully ruined in the best way — passed out by 7pm, slept through the night, didn’t make a single peep until 6am.
Praying he keeps this up because mama needs another night like that 💜

anti-vaccination ladies

Hello all. anyone of you refused all or any vaccinations or injections etc for your babies/kids? let me know……..

i dont know many mamas…

Sleep!

Has anyone got any tips for easing tiredness for the newborn stage?? Me and my bf do shifts atm where we have about 6 hrs sleep each but we’re still absolutely knackered. I know this is just how it is going to be for a while but did anything help anyone? There’s only so much coffee I can drink and it’s not really cutting it🤣

4 month sleep advice!

I need 4 month baby sleep advice!
Chat gpt says one thing, an app says another. My baby is 4 months 2 weeks and feels like his sleep has been rubbish for like 5-6 weeks now. I did think yesterday maybe his day naps are too short, he’s had three short naps today (30 mins each x 3)
An app I have is saying he should have another short nap (6.38pm) but Chat gpt is saying an early bed time. He can normally go down between 6.00/7.45 depending on the day after a bath and feed but he wakes so much during the night.
The app is saying they need like 3 hours day time sleep then 10 nighttime, But he just seems to wake every 1.5-2 hours and only thing to settle is the boob. I try dummy and hand on chest first, sometimes works, most time doesn’t, same with a cuddle and rocking. Boob quietens him but half the time it’s soothing rather than feed. I unlatch him and let him sleep on me for about 15 minutes so it’s safe to transfer him without waking, also sometimes works, sometimes doesn’t. I don’t know what the right thing is to do. Feel like I’m losing my mind lol