Thoughts on lack of s*x and initiative from husband

Ladies,

My husband doesn’t get it. He’s not taking the hint or he doesn’t care. I think he might have sexual preferences that I may not be able to cater to hence he doesn’t initiate or perhaps avoids intimacy on purpose.

I haven’t had a dry spell like this in forever. Not in my 20’s or even when I was single. I’m pregnant but there’s no reason why we should have stopped having sex when I got pregnant. I just stopped initiating too because I was exhausted and didn’t think I could initiate and lost all my confidence when my body started changing due to pregnancy.

I do like and care about him but would it be so bad to cheat if we’re sexually incompatible or not on the same wavelength? I know it’s not a good thing but I may actually like our family life together just not the lack of s*x.

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