Bd

If it's a case of staying because the relationship is a comfortable backing and feels normal it will take strong will to not go back. Making a comfortable routine without your BD constantly around you could be the answer.

Leave and if u feel like u want to go back remember what he do to u remember what he told u and what he's showing u and tell ur self that u don't want to live like that no matter if u have a baby it's not that he doesn't want to leave u it's bc he wants u to leave him for him to act like the victim

I would say slowly detach from him start with a couple of days ans then be around each other for a couple of days because then for the first bit it doesn’t feel weird and then just gradually detach all together it’s how I done it with my bd and it worked for me I wanted him around all the time for comfort and support and then I relised I don’t need that anymore and know he only sees his son once a week by his own choice and doesn’t contacts me I speak to him mum x

My BD treated me so bad during the regency and after I gave birth. Repeatedly told me he did not want me and wanted me out my house. I packed all my stuff and left one weekend. It hurts so bad everyday but going back isn’t an option. Once you get over the initial hurt and loneliness you will be okay. It’s ok to be sad and hurt and disappointed etc. you are all your child needs