Do you have 2 or more boys? Make me feel like I’m not alone…. Pls!!!

Im a mum of 3 boys ages - 5, 9 & 10
(also have a 5 month old girl ;)
My boys send me CRAZY!
I feel it’s on a daily basis with their fighting amongst themselves (whether physical or verbal), constant sh””t stirring or even just bullying each other. It’s like pecking order, oldest fights with the middle child then middle child does the same to the youngest. Not a day goes by that they’re not at each other.
Im going insane!!! Same sh””t every day…. Leave him alone, don’t speak to each other like that, thats his give it back, keep your hands to yourself, don’t do that again, why did you have to hurt him, apologise, can’t you all just be nice to one another. Im like a broken record. It never f””kin ends!!!!!!

Will it ever end!??? How do you cope or handle your boys, is it the same at your house?

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My husband works so much

He works at 4 am but has to get up at 3am he gets home at 7 and then plays on his phone in our room until he goes to bed at 8 I would be EXHAUSTED if I had his schedule I don’t know how he does it but I’ve been busting my ass too and I’m so tired 😩 I get absolutely no breaks what do I even do? I feel so guilty for saying I’m tired? Uhggg anyone have advice?

Should I confront him?

I’m literally due in 5days…. My partner smokes (I used to prior to being pregnant…no biggie at all)
He ran out of papers and left to go buy some but it was taking unusually long I called 2-3 times no answer his excuse is the phone was in crease of car (basically didn’t hear it couldn’t find it while driving back) he comes home and I see his phone get a couple texts while he walks off I look over and it’s whole convo with a girl he just went to smoke with like he literally left the house while I was putting our daughters to bed (both two under two)….. I really don’t know what to do or how confront him with out him playing victim or stressing myself days before labor

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I was in a mood washing the bottles.. I di them everyday and sanitize them
My husband came in and said what's wrong, I said im just doing my motherly duties lol he laughed and said I work everyday too! I laughed and said no you dont, i do this every single day without no hesitation. You get to relax from work but a mother shows up everyday without any hesitation for their babies. I beg to differ on this subject because some days can be harder than others as a mother. But no matter what we show up! With no break! No clock in or out.

Separation

My BD really isn’t shit and as of this Sunday will make two weeks since we’ve been separated. My home is finally at peace but at times it definitely feels weird and me and baby girl just have to get readjusted without him in the house. I feel stupid to even miss him but do I even miss him as a partner or just the extra helping hand in the house. Either way this separation needed to happen I was unhappy and he’ll never admit it but his actions showed, you know when a man don’t want you no more. I’m just ready to get out of this “what could I have done differently stage” and stop blaming myself. I just don’t know where to start tbh. Any advice would be useful to get me out this funk. Thank you guys!

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My sons dad and I got everything to make dinner so I made dinner. Homemade hamburger helper. Well I cooked the rice separately from the meat and I was gonna combine everything and add cheese, milk. Well he got all upset for about 10 mins threw a tantrum being mean then he left to go to the store to get ingredients to cook himself. He says I watched him do it all the time but really I wanted to make it this way for whatever reason. I feel kinda bad about it

Do you have 2 or more boys? Make me feel like I’m not alone…. Pls!!!

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Do you have 2 or more boys? Make me feel like I’m not alone…. Pls!!!