What do you think?

It’s our anniversary and I’ve been talking about it non stop the last two weeks. I always go out of my way for holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, etc, and this year I just asked my husband do the planning and make sure we have a really romantic night together. He said he would. I’m at work now, and he mentioned going out tonight with some of his friends. I asked what about our anniversary and he kind of just blew it off and said he didn’t really plan anything and we don’t have money to do something anyways. I’m secretly hoping he’s just trying to throw me off, but part of me feels like I’m going home to disappointment tonight. What do you think?

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Hard to say, has he asked you to come out with his friends too? Do you have kids and know if a sitter has been arranged/coming?

Not really much to go off of as third party looking in.

If he usually doesn’t plan anything,he probably won’t have anything planned today.

Order a Chinese and put a box set on 👍🏼

Ooffff. I mean…. Hm.
Without more context.

Is he genuinely the type to surprise you? And is playfully confusing you?

Or

Does he not put effort in most aspects so you’re nervous to be disappointed “more” than usually? And dismissed you coldly when you asked about it?

I want him to be surprising you because he specifically mentioned “they agreed to leave the wives and kids home” and that’s a pretty dick thing to agree to when its the night of your anniversary that your wife’s been reminding you about wanting you to plan something…. Blaming lack of money, ew. What will you be spending when you go out when your friends? Fun coupons? 😒
But maybe it’s a cover? Hopefully? Maybe 🥹

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