Domestic abuse wanting to give up on life
I have a 4month old baby no job, no money, no savings, no qualifications to get a job. I feel stuck no choice but to take the constant verbal financial and physical abuse because he provided everything I live outside of the uk so there’s no benefits or support from government.
I have no family no friends just me I take on the whole responsibility of parenting when I ask for help his response his he works he also cheats on me doesn’t care weather I know the person or not he was sleeping with a girl I know when I confronted him he said it’s shit marriage then messaged her saying I will explain everything please let’s not end what we have
He hits me weekly infront of child when I was 6days postpartum he hit while I was carrying my child called me a cow for breastfeeding
I feel trapped because I have no income, no support system, and nowhere to go. I’m scared and don’t know what my options are.
Has anyone been in a similar situation or knows what I can do?
Do moms really want to socialize?
Hi, to all the moms who come across this and take a moment to read it. My name is Tania, I’m a mom of three, and to be honest, I haven’t been doing very well lately.
I had my third baby exactly 4 months ago, and like many of us, these past few months have been a bit tough. When it comes to motherhood itself, maybe not so much—just the normal challenges of this stage—but overall, it’s been really hard for me.
I don’t think I’ve even been on this app for a full month yet, but like most of us, I downloaded it hoping to connect and socialize with other moms. I thought it might help me open up more and build friendships with women who have gone through or are going through similar experiences.
I’ve noticed most of us share a love for coffee (honestly, I think it’s what gives us that superpower to be moms, wives, and women every day). But to be honest, I haven’t had the kind of interaction or connection I was hoping for. It hurts that the few people I’ve reached out to don’t go beyond a simple greeting.
Lately I’ve been feeling really drained, like I’m not showing up the way I want to. I can’t say I have postpartum depression because I’m not a doctor and I don’t want to self-diagnose, but I truly thought being in a space full of moms would help me feel less alone.
It just makes me a little sad to feel like people aren’t really open to connecting. I don’t quite understand what everyone is looking for here… but anyway, I just wanted to share how I’ve been feeling.
