always initiating sex
not really looking for advice just wanting to rant… i feel like im the one constantly initiating sex ever sense getting pregnant (now 10 weeks postpartum and I have been having sex again since week five). It feels like unless I give him head first he just doesn’t take the initiative to have sex with me. there was a week where I was giving him head every single night before bed and so we had sex every single night, but I haven’t done that the last week or so and so we haven’t really been having sex. Sometimes I’ll make comments during the day about getting it on at night, but it just doesn’t happen. idk just kind of miss him inititiating
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I've had the same issue in my relationship, and it got me to the point I didn't feel like giving him head anymore and no longer do. I told him I needed to feel wanted, not just when I was starting it or doing something for him.
I had the same issue with my partner. I was the only one taking initiative to start anything. I end do having a conversation with him about it and it’s some what improved but unfortunately my little one isn’t sleeping best so were napping wt the same time as him which don’t give us any is time .
Maybe try and talk to other him about how you feel?
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