Feeling so lost and scared to be a single mum
My child’s father has been quite awful to me. He’s always high, never plans dates, never is intimate with me or compliments me. Never wants to spend time with me. I do all the childcare, cleaning, cooking, grocery shops. He complains when I ask him to hang out with me as he’s rather be out with his friends. He’s a total mamas boy, in the past his mum has made rude comments to me and he’s never once stood up for me or told her to stop. Recently I found out I was pregnant again and I was so hopeful and he forced me to have an abortion. He said if I didn’t I would be a single mum at 26 with two kids. Literally screamed at me to take the pill for it. Still traumatised by that. I found him connecting other women on Instagram and contacting women he used to sleep with. He also was out till 8am two nights before I went into labour (didn’t answer any calls) but left me a voicemail by accident when he pocket dialled me and he was chatting to some women at 6am. I’ve told him time and time again I am done, but he would apologise and I could see he wanted to make an effort and say he will change but it never lasts. I’ve realised he’s been extra distant and cold with me the past few months and he just said he just doesn’t think he can love me like I want him to and he doesn’t think it will work. I suddenly broke down. I’ve been with this person since I was 21. We have a beautiful child together. We live together. And now after all I’ve done to forgive him he said he’s emotionally checked out and will be moving out. Even though I know it’s the right thing why am I so emotional and feel so sad? I’m so scared to be a single mum and for us to end for real even though I know it’s right. Please support I really am scared and I feel too anxious to speak to friends as I know that makes it more real
Why don’t you have friends?
I swear I thought I was the only person who was actively looking for friends. Lets start a thread .
Name,Age,Location
Why don’t you have friends?
What type of friends are you looking for?
What is a dealbreaker in a friendship?
Diamond 26 Detroit MI
I don’t have friends all through school I wasn’t like the other girls I didn’t like makeup. I didn’t really like boys. I liked dinosaurs, marine biology , microscopes. They thought I was weird. 😂
I’m looking for a friend who has morals , no hard d*ugs , 420 friendly likes fine arts (painting, poetry etc) I want Friend I can go on a seven day cruise with, and she won’t cry cause she miss her kids , 😂 a friend who will tell me STFU if I cried on a cruise cause I miss my kids😂 A lady in the streets and a party animal when those kids are away ‼️
I don’t like liars,people who don’t believe kids come first, no one in a long term abusive relationship (they like to trauma dump and talking to them is like talking to a brick wall . Love yourself and leave) .
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