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Clothes question

Ladies recently my little boys clothes have been having random yellow stains on them noticable after a wash idk if im putting the wash on too long or if its the spit up from milk thats causing it as its only around his shoulders or neck where the spit up may have happened that day, no issues with the trousers just frustrating to why it might be happening, has this happened to anyone before?

Last nap before bed!

What time is everyone’s little one who’s around 5 months nearly 6 months last nap of the day?

Angry and upset with social services

Social services have been a part of my life for a while. For the last year we have just been getting the tick boxes ticked. They have zero concerns its "just the process" well they said that our next meeting (today) theyd likely close our case because everything is done. Nope, wrong! Theyve given new goal posts. I am so annoyed! Its taking precious time i have on my day off with my daughter because they keep adding new goal posts (which they've been officially told off for doing 5 times in the past).

I just want them out my life. Im sick and tired of sitting with them every 3 weeks going all finez nothing new, all is well. Shes thriving. Because thats litrally been my life for 12 months. But they keep changing our senior worker and they are the ones that keep adding new goal posts. I just want to scream! My daughter also hates our newest social worker. She hides from her saying mummy i no like, make her leave in a whisper.

My 8 month old has no sleep routine nor eats 😅

Any mamas with babies aged 6 months + who have absolutely no sleep routine and just sleep whenever they want?😅 I’ve tried everything to establish a routine, but nothing seems to work, what works is following her lead and waiting till she gets tired, I’m curious to know if this is what other mamas do or if they have a strict wine down routine and how they implement this? Also, my little one barely eats and is still on purees but some days she won’t eat at all, some days 5 spoons because anything with a thicker texture makes her vomit as one time she had vomit through her nose and mouth😩 I’m also terrified of baby led weaning because of choking, so weaning has been stressful! She is constantly teething though so that could be a reason, at 8 months she has 6 teeth 😂 I keep seeing these babies eat full on 3 meals and snacks by 8 months and I feel like I’m failing 🥺 Any advice or tips for babies with strong stubborn personalities who like doing everything on their own terms? Xx

Development check

Has anyone had a letter for their babies 9-12 month development check yet? I had my daughters super early years ago and her appt was when she turned 9 months, but still not had anything for my son yet (start of Jan baby) so was just curious🥰

Any success stories about re latching

I’m having quite a tough day today. My baby’s 2 months old and he hasn’t been latching very well since 7 weeks. I have tried everything - he was latching very well on nipple shield but not anymore. Feels like I’m one step closer and then it goes 2 steps backwards. Anyone had difficulty and then few months later their babies just latched back/again xxxx