Safe space question

Question for Black women dating or married to white men šŸ‘€

I’m a Black woman myself, and I’ve honestly been thinking about trying interracial dating, so I’m curious about other women’s real experiences.

Do you feel like your relationship dynamic is healthier, more peaceful, or emotionally different than relationships you’ve had in the past? What differences have you noticed?

No judgment either way, just genuinely curious ā¤ļø

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My partner and son’s dad is a white man and honestly, it’s very different. More healing and a lot more peaceful, I can teach him a lot too, he’s not already knowing, I don’t know how to explain it. It does come with its limitations but I would never go back to dating black men😭 as much as I love us, our men just irk my soul differently and it’s hard to find decent ones. But a lot of white men are so loving and especially the God fearing ones *chef kiss*

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Omg see this is needed šŸ˜ I love us to and love to be with black men but they do to much and get angry so easily idk how much more I can take fr

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As a white girl who’s only ever known and dated white men, this is kinda shocking to me because they’re all emotionally immature dickheads in my experience🤣🤣 a good one is soooo rare

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Uhm, as someone who has kind of primarily dated white men and is married to one, it’s not like white men are just soooooo healthy and peaceful or anything. Men are still men. They still come with their own issues. I have noticed that some will date black women but still be racist and call them the N word during arguments (my sisters ex use to). So definitely tread lightly and make sure that the one you’re dating is genuine and isn’t just trying you out. Also if they say that they ā€œonly date black girlsā€ run. And fast, you are not a fetish. I’ve never dated a black man so I really can’t compare the two but I’ve dated prettt much every other race and a man is a man, no matter the race they pretty much act the same.

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