Whats wrong with me...

Basically my fella has this female friend that he's close they see each other everyday. I am close to her too but not as close... In all honesty i distance myself because I've never being a very social people like they are. I don't mind having friends but not the type of person to spend every single day together... Is that a bad thing? I've being called boring and anti social by them both for this and its upsetting me now. I aint being boring i just don't trust her at all.. She's tried stirring stuff between me and my fella .. She constantly brings drama to my house etc ... This is why I've backed off a lot from her.. However my fella still spends everyday around her and her fella...

I give up i just don't know what to do anymore coz every time i do say something my fella is quick enough to jump to her defence.. Apparently shes like a sister to him and im jealous

What do i do?

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Why don’t you have friends?

I swear I thought I was the only person who was actively looking for friends. Lets start a thread .

Name,Age,Location

Why don’t you have friends?

What type of friends are you looking for?

What is a dealbreaker in a friendship?

Diamond 26 Detroit MI

I don’t have friends all through school I wasn’t like the other girls I didn’t like makeup. I didn’t really like boys. I liked dinosaurs, marine biology , microscopes. They thought I was weird. 😂

I’m looking for a friend who has morals , no hard d*ugs , 420 friendly likes fine arts (painting, poetry etc) I want Friend I can go on a seven day cruise with, and she won’t cry cause she miss her kids , 😂 a friend who will tell me STFU if I cried on a cruise cause I miss my kids😂 A lady in the streets and a party animal when those kids are away ‼️

I don’t like liars,people who don’t believe kids come first, no one in a long term abusive relationship (they like to trauma dump and talking to them is like talking to a brick wall . Love yourself and leave) .

Vitamins in pregnancy

In the early weeks I made sure to be taking folic acid and vit D at the minimum and my full pregnancy one when I could stomach it. However since 20 weeks I have been so bad at remembering to take it 🫣 wondering about everyone else??

Looking for a bestie

Hello I’m Moniquee I’m 28 years old I have 2 beautiful girls ages 7 and 2 my littlest one is on the spectrum I’m currently going through a divorce was with him for 7 years but I’m happy I’m finding myself I’m looking for a mom friends or girl best friend I miss connecting and hanging out and actually being around females I’m pretty quiet at times but once I’m comfortable im fun to be around ☺️☺️ if your looking for a bestie message me 🥹🥰🥰 I can’t see waves I’m in Glendale,Colorado

Safe space question

Question for Black women dating or married to white men 👀

I’m a Black woman myself, and I’ve honestly been thinking about trying interracial dating, so I’m curious about other women’s real experiences.

Do you feel like your relationship dynamic is healthier, more peaceful, or emotionally different than relationships you’ve had in the past? What differences have you noticed?

No judgment either way, just genuinely curious ❤️

friendships

Have your relationships with the non mum friends changed? i feel like we have nothing to talk about and if we do, they wouldnt understand. Is this normal?

Vaginal odour

Its been 2 years now of me struggling with this disgustimg fishy smell down there. It goes away for like five minutes after a shower and then it comes back and no matter how many underwear I change in a day or don't wear at all. I still smell the smug get into my clothes, causing me to run out of clothes and shower like four times a day I have been to my guy now multiple times have been tested for BV multiple times all coming back negative I am not sure what to do as this is not only affecting me, but it's also affecting my mental health and my sex life. If anybody knows what I should do please help.