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Is anyone still working? I’m 34 weeks tomorrow and honestly struggling mentally so much. I’ve realised I hate people and my fuse is so short with things. I am planning on working until 39 weeks but my anger levels are just increasing so much😩

Does anyone have any advice?

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Do what’s best for you ! You just have to listen to your body and instincts to what is right.

With my first I went of work at 35 weeks with 2 weeks holiday and officially started maternity at 37 weeks which was a good job really because the appointments got very very frequent and I had him at 38 weeks.
This pregnancy I was forced out of work on the sick at 15 weeks .. now 34 weeks and glad I didn’t push myself because this pregnancy has really taken a toll on me.

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Call GP and go off sick? You should also mention this to your midwife team, so they can support?

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I am 35 weeks and I'm finishing up next Friday at 36+2

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Im 32 weeks will be 33 on Sunday and ive been off of sick the last 2 weeks. I plan on using my holidays in June to go off gradually. Working 3 days a week. Then 2 days. Then off. Because I just can't sit at a desk for 7.5 hours a day anymore. I am trying to get shorter shifts at work but see what they say as that isn't hopeful

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If you go off sick they can force your mat leave to start early which is what I don’t want

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They can't force you. Im pretty sure that isn't aloud! Unless its health and safety concerns..... but i think every company is different

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I my role I work closely with HR and I’m sure that if you are over 28 weeks and off they can start your Mat leave early

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I just looked up my policy. Mine is 4 weeks before EWC of baby then they can automatically start your maternity.
I wouldnt know what to recommended now xx

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I’m 34 weeks today and I’m closing my childminding business at 36 weeks - I’m so excited to be done because I feel the same as you, my patience is so thin at the moment and I’m in a lot of discomfort.

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