Does your spouse or partner…
Hi. So this might sound dumb to some, idk. I’m not here to argue.
Anyways, my partner got me a sex toy, he said it’s an early Mother’s Day present. He has always been against me having toys, in fact he broke one! So he said this is because you think I broke yours.
So me being shocked figured there was more to the story. I asked him what he got. First answer he said nothing, then I asked him again, he said he got something. So once we got back to the house I was curious. It was what I think is a pocket p.
So it could flip to a vagina or a butthole. Anyways, the reviews I read on them says they feel real. Obviously I’m not a guy so I’m not 100% sure if it does or not to a guy. Anyways, I’m wondering if we will have less sex now since he’s content doing things to himself? No I’m not trying to control his masterbation, I’m trying to figure out if my life will be affected sexual wise by his choices. Been with him over 5 years so I’m sure it does feel amazing to him.
Anyone have any experience dealing with this type of thing?
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In my personal opinion it didnt affect my relationship. But he also has self control. Idk about your man. Mine still prefers they real thing.
My husband has no toys. I bought some for curiosity and haven’t liked them personally
Been together 21 years and he never complained once and rarely master bates despite us never having sex
Am I reading this correctly that he said he bought YOU a sex toy for Mother’s Day, turns out he bought himself one, he’s against you having a sex toy yet got himself one, and in the past he broke one of yours???
If so, wtf? That sounds very shitty… aggressive and passive aggressive..
Im curious on how he said this is a present for you for Mother’s Day- this sounds more like a Father’s Day present.
We use toys together!
I’m an advocate for toys and they can be used together but I will admit it’s an odd way to broach this. How exactly is this a toy for you? If he got that for himself and replaced your broken toy then mutual masturbation can be really fun but that doesn’t sound like what is happening…if that is the case I’m sorry to say he sounds like a bit of a dick.
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