Child’s father came forward and said he refuses to be involved until after the baby is born. This came after me asking for help during preparation.
Am I wrong for being upset?
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No, youre not. He should be involved the entire time. How do you know he will be involved once baby is here if he is refusing to be involved now?

Listen, any mom would be upset especially if you thought y’all would do this whole parenthood together smh 😑

So he wants the attention of being a dad without doing the work, because that is what I’m hearing. If he wants to be involved and you are allowing him to be, that starts now, not when it’s convenient.