Should I give them back?
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I wouldn’t lol

sell them!!

I’ve only been married once and still married him so I can’t really say an answer.
But to me, that was something you both shared together. He wanted to marry you at that time AND picked them. why does he want them back? Does he want to re-marry with them? If so he’s a lame ass anyway. Does he want to sell them? Go work so more.

Personally I’d be questioning him as to why.
To give to another woman?
oh hell no. 😅
To sell?
Go back to work my guy. Or work harder. Usually he owes you for something somewhere.
If it’s amicable and he’s just asking and you feel no malice towards it, you get alimony, or didn’t want it etc?
Sure give em back. Whatever bye dude
Basically I told him I’ll never get back with him but I always said I was keeping them for our girls. Now he’s asking for them back.

Wedding rings aren't given conditionally 😂 give them back if you want to as they're yours to do whatever but personally, if you don't want to keep them I'd sell them 🤷🏻♀️
Yeh I’m now being told I’m bitter. He was the one who ruined and ended our marriage. Just because now I won’t go back because he’s finally sorting himself out I’m in the wrong 🤦🏽♀️

The only way I'd even consider this is if they were family heirlooms from his side but regardless I'd probably save them for our kids to use.
Wedding rings aren't given conditionally. He can take a hike!

Nope sorry dude. Too bad so sad.

I gave my ex back my engagement ring because it was an important ring that had belonged to his mother. My wedding ring, I threw in the river and never looked back 😂

It was a gift. No.
Yeh I actually hate that I’ve let this get to me. I’ve got so far I’m starting to feel like me again. After months on therapy. It’s like he doesn’t realise what he’s done to me and he’s the victim because I won’t forgive and forget. He’s destroyed me as a person and I’ve had to put on a brave face to keep a relationship with our girls as he’s only allowed supervised visits. He’s destroyed our family he chose drugs over his family he kicked me out and made me homeless with 2 kids, 3 weeks after having our second child. Now he wants to take my rings that at one point did mean the world to me because he paid for them and because I’m not his wife I don’t get to keep them. I wanted them for our girls to show that once there was so much love.

You lost it okay

NO. They were gifts given in contemplation of marriage. They are yours.

Erm no. Those rings in the UK are considered absolute, not conditional, gifts. Your rings are your own. He’s entitled to fuck all. Sell them, keep them, they are yours.