Hi mummas,
I’m overwhelmed 😩
I’m a first time mum my son is 17 months.. he’s constantly around me, I’m also a single parent who can only rely on myself. No family or friends to help.
I am trying to put a routine for my son, he has had a routine but always falling asleep next to me. I’m trying to change this so he can go sleep alone.
Please any help will be great.
I have tried the crying method but I feel guilt and keep giving in 😩 help!!
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Hey ! I can’t speak on personal experience, as my baby is rocked to sleep / not sleep trained. However my friend said she did the Ferber method (hope I’ve spelt that right) where you leave it a minute or two, go and console them and then leave again, gradually increasing the times you go in and help if they are sad.
You could also try a gradual room leave , where you sit next to the cot, and every day gradually move away until you are out of the room. Unsure if this works!!
I know it’s difficult, but one day something will click and he will just get it! Xx

Increasing Time length I mean , not overall times xxx