Am I the only mom that doesn’t want to be around my family tomorrow? Like at all?

Unfortunately, I’ve been battling with my relationship. I’m a mother of two (ages 1 and 11) and my partner is not the most “thoughtful” person. I feel so unseen, under appreciated and just overall not the greatest. I’d much rather spend the day alone - relaxing than to feel so uncared for on a day that should feel extra special. Am I the only one?

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Spend it alone!

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Wanna come be u unbothered with me and my kids and hubby? We love a pool and an outside day. Hmu

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You are not the only one it’s ok to feel that way

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Nope!! We give these children all our days and time I wish everyone understood we don’t have to be mommy on Mother’s Day!!!

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Please don’t add @its_jasmineeexo on Snapchat! I’ll add another picture in the comments.

She’s a racist, homophobe and constantly belittles people. If you’re not chatting with her all day she’ll start arguments and belittle you. It’s not nice and she has a small group of followers. My friends and I have a Snapchat group with good vibes. She joined and completely ruined it. Once removed, she added people from my group and started adding them to hers, saying crude things. Check out the group name too; before it was “Hitler’s Hoes”.

If anyone is interested in joining a nice group chat with some lovely mums! Please comment below and will message you privately :)

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My boyfriend took our 11 month old to go see his family for the day. I didn't go because they don't know I'm pregnant yet. I feel sad and alone, I really have no friends and I don't know how to be alone

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Keep in touch days

Do people actually make use of keep in touch days ?

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Anyone lonely like me and want a friend ❤️

Im a new mum to a 3 month old boy
Love to make new friends and meet up for a coffee. Been isolated by childhood friend because im a mum, new friends would be great 👍🏾 thank you xx

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Am I expecting too much from others ?

im sincerely struggling with loneliness during this pregnancy i’ve always struggled with friendships because it’s always one sided , friends who are inconsistent and only reply when they feel like it . It’s draining so i stopped putting in the energy blowing up peoples phone . I was never the type to be like I’m not texting first but after a long time, I realize it’s best for my sanity and mental health because it really all just one side truly and it drains you . I have people that check on me every now and then saying how much they’re there for me & how much they love and care for me and I just don’t feel like it’s sincere. I need you guys to understand if you read this that I’m not asking someone to blow up my phone all day or always hanging out all I can say is regardless of anything everybody picks up their phone everyday these are people that I know who spend time on the phone during the day. I’m just asking for consistency and something genuine .
And sometimes it feels like i’m asking for the world .
I have my husband and I’m truly grateful for that he really is my best friend the biggest support he does everything with me and doesn’t open his mouth to every complain but sometimes I do want a true friend and it hurts a lot .

And I wanna be open to meet new people but it’s a cycle no one replies 😅

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Therapy, does it work?

I see a lot of moms posting to vent, which is completely fine, but I wonder, would you consider a therapist? I vent to my therapist and she has some wonderful tools that help me cope.

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